Meeting tons of new people, decorating your dorm, finding your classes on campus–the first week of college can be one of the most nervous and exciting times of your life.
Sure, going through of so much change and unfamiliarity can be tough. And of course, everyone and their mother has advice for how to survive. But thriving as a freshman in college requires more than “doing your best” and “being yourself.” Here are five tips you likely haven’t already heard to help you through your first year of college:
You CAN change academic departments.
College isn’t necessarily about becoming an expert; it’s about becoming a professional. Being a professional doesn’t necessarily mean you have to excel in only one specific area. I studied Communications, but when I started my company my junior year, I worked with all different disciplines within the university to launch my brand: The business school helped me create a business plan, get a tax ID and a business license. The textile school helped me find a manufacturer. Graphic Design students taught me Photoshop so I could build my website. I used every area of campus to help get my questions answered.
Lessoned learned? Just because you’re studying one specific major, doesn’t mean you can’t get your feet wet in other departments.
The first people you meet don’t have to be your best friends.
The beginning of college is a social flurry. Even on move-in day, everyone’s talking in the elevators and meeting their hall-mates. Then people start to group up and go to the dining halls together and walk in groups to their classes, which is fine. But there’s a certain amount of pressure to, “find your group” in the midst of all this chaos.
Don’t feel scared or intimidated if no one strikes your fancy straight away. This writer found her true friends from joining clubs and organizations. (I met one of my best friends through giving tours on campus and the other through teaching fitness classes.)
Joining clubs and organizations gives you the opportunity to surround yourself with like-minded people. So don’t stress if you don’t find BFFs living in your dorm wing. Join clubs that interest you and you’ll meet people with similar passions.
Your professional career starts now.
One of the biggest mistakes college students make? Thinking their professional career starts the day they graduate or the day they find a job. Au Contraire. Your professional career starts the moment you set foot on campus.
Don’t wait until your junior or senior year to do internships or even shadow professionals in the area. Whether it’s on campus working in the admissions office or off campus interning at an accounting firm, stack up your credentials with transferable skills that you can apply to the workplace. Interview whenever you can, sit in on meetings, network with the administration, contribute to the school newspaper. Once it’s time to actually start applying for jobs and conducting interviews, you’ll have the experience you need to get ahead..
It’s okay if you don’t know what you want to do.
It can be intimidating to hear your roommate talk about how she knew she wanted to be an aerospace engineer since she was born (and if that’s the case, she’s definitely exaggerating). It’s totally okay to not know what you want to do when you get to college. Find out if your school has a first-year program for students who are unsure of what direction they want to take.
Instead of picking a major with uncertainty, take general education classes that can be applied to anything. Don’t waste your time, money and credits on Intro to Architecture if you’re unsure you want to be an architect.
You probably won’t have your “aha” moment by Googling “dream careers.” Instead figure out how you can even just touch the surface of a lot of different careers. Maybe that’s through seminars on campus, or shadowing local professionals, or even just talking to friends and family about their jobs.
Also, always know that no experience is a waste. There will always be room in your life to change directions. Whatever you choose now, you don’t have to be locked in forever.
College isn’t always the best four years of your life.
You’ve probably heard dozens of times to enjoy college because it’s the best four years of your life. For many, that’s not the case–and that’s OK. If you play your cards right, you can use your time in college to create a foundation for the best years of your life. It’s not about how many friends you made or how much “fun” it looks like you’re having on your Instagram. It’s about using your time in college to build who you are, figure out what you want, and start taking the steps to get there. That comes with making a few mistakes (okay, maybe more than a few), figuring out what motivates you, surrounding yourself with positive people, and understanding that life is dynamic.
Eat at the dining halls. Run for student body president. Start a ping pong club. Scream your head off at football games. Learn a new language. Camp out for festival tickets with your friends. Take the good with the bad. And most importantly, learn from everything.
For more tips and tricks about making the most of college, check out my book: The Freshman Fabulous: The Girl’s Guide to College.